#1: If your lover was raped before/after marriage...

what will you do?





Because Hyuuga sensei is going to improve her "skills" *laugh* to far away place today, Miharu and I, only two of us, have our lunch together in our favorite mall. Maybe I can say that Popular is our headquarter to arrange what-we-will-do-after-this plan, chit chat and of course waste time before watching movie haha. So while we are checking recent books, Miharu offers a topic related to our previous post about rape...



"What will you do if you know that your girlfriend was raped while both of you plan to get married soon?" (before marriage)


And she also asks another question:


"What will you do if your wife was raped?"






Hun... these questions should be answered by male right? So, I just offer my own perspective as female. For me, whether I know it before or after marriage, if I really love that person, I will keep our relationship. I think that love truly means. No matter what happens. The most important thing is our lover does not expect that bitter experience happened right? And in that hard time, we play important role to support and not to let our lover down. I also realise that I think I will be very sad that I can not protect my lover from that bitter experience. That is my opinion. For man's perspective, I think it will be two options: leave / divorce her or keep the relationship/marriage... So what will you do? What is your opinion?

Nyaa~ Miharu desu! Yes! I was so shocked when I heard Hyuuga told me about the newest topic today, because as Zuna pointed it, the questions itself was from me. I've never imagined that she would put that into this! So embarassing.... ~hahaha~

Well, since this is my question, I can't say a lot, but I will offer my opinion. Actually, I am not sure what I would do about that either. Let say if she was my wife (considering I were a man here), I am positive that I can accept her again as she and I had already binded to each other and we also had done a LOT of things together.

However, if she was raped days before our marriage, I might consider about taking her as my wife. I know it sounded weird. Even I myself think like that and don't know the reason why I can accept it for my wife, but not for my soon-to-be-wife.... ~LOL~


Zuna: *point Miharu's opinion* What does "we also had done a LOT of things together" mean? XD

Rape Case in Sunway Area

Actually I just heard the news from Miharu and Hyuuga tonight after going back from hanging out... and I also asked my friend, Airene, about this news. From what I gathered...


The news was published on Chinese newspaper (not English newspaper) and it happened on 17 April 2009. On the newspaper, it is said that it happened in free parking area in Sunway area which means it can be either near Monash University or Sunway University College. Airene said she thinks that it happened in parking area near Monash Univesity. That girl, which I think is Chinese, is pitiful... After she was raped, she was brought to the bank and asked to withdraw the money...


When I heard about that, I just... how is her feeling and condition... after being raped, she was forced to bank?? I hope those boys will be arrested by police soon... They are really really terrible >_____<~ and for that girl, I really hope God can strengthen her...

Sushi Groove

Mood: Tiring... Happy~

Songs: Rythem - Hitoritabi Shararuran





Talking about sushi, Sushi King is the place where we usually go haha. It is less expensive *plus our lovely discount card!~* and quite ok compared to Sakae Sushi *it really sucks* Another option is Sushi Zanmai which is more expensive than Sushi King but is more delicious~


Okay about Sushi Groove, why do we (perhaps I) go there?

1. This month, Sushi Groove offers "Salmon Season," a good promotion to attract salmon lover like me.

2. Wendy said Sushi Groove serves delicious sushi although it is quite expensive since it is sushi bar so how about trying his suggestion?


So, when we enter that Sushi Groove, I am attracted by its bamboo decoration which looks quite natural. However the situation inside the restaurant is under my expectation, it is not my favorite type for eating haha. The place is gloomy with dim light *yeah it is bar as I said* and there are only two tables with 4 people so it is like... euw...


For the menu, it offers quite unique recipes such as adding spicy flavor, emping cracker, carro, etc for sushi. Less "small sushi" like nigiri sushi or maki, but more on "large sushi" such as dragon boat sushi which costs up to RM 10 (the most expensive "large sushi" type costs RM 19.90). For the drinks, maybe you want to try cocktail, mocktail, sake or green tea that costs RM 3.90 while you can sip it for RM 1 in other places?


After reading the menu several times, Miharu orders Gyu Tamago Don (RM 14.90), Hyuuga orders Chicken Katsu (RM 14.90) and I orders Salmon Shio Bibimbap (RM 9.90) + Mayonnaise Dream Roll (RM 5.45 - actual price is RM 10.90)

Salmon Shio Bibimbap - it remains me with my last time home made cooking

Mayonnaise Dream Roll - don't be surprised with its "tiny" appearance

For the service, the waitress is quite cute haha... but she needs more experience since she is still a beginner like another waiter serving our food.


So... a few minutes has passed away... the food comes and "sit" in front of us... our eyes meet each other... and... it does not take too much time for us to proove Wendy's opinion about this restaurant...

Miharu:

Miharu desu! XD As Zuna explained above, we usually go to Sushi King. But, because a certain devil (Wendy ;P) persuaded us the 'beauty' of Sushi Groove from days before, we went there in order to prove the 'beauty' ourselves and also to spare us from Wendy's torture. ~hahaha~

First impression? It was really different from every sushi restaurants I had come across. It doesn't have a sushi bar, which in my opinion, is the biggest mistake for it. What kind of sushi restaurant that doesn't have the 'walking plates'?

And talking about variety. In my opinion, the variety of sushi in there is so poor. Aside from that, the price for each items can be considered as quite expensive TT^TT To confirm what Zuna said, I ordered Gyu Tamago Don which had the same taste as beef ~hahaha~ Lame joke. Not really satisfying.... I think it only covered the portion for my breakfast.... And remembering its price, it was not really worthy.... Damn that Wendy! XD Give me back my money ~hahaha~

If some of you think that this opinion is really subjective, which it indeed is, just go to Sushi Groove first and share with us your opinions. If things turned out to be good, please do tell which good foods you ordered, so we can also check it out. ~hahaha~ If we went there again, which I highly doubted it XD

Hyuuga:

Yeah, when we pays the bill... it is written RM 52... I feel like... we paid RM 52 not for dinner but for tea time!

And it seems Sushi Groove knows what we are thinking... when I collect the change, a RM 10 voucher and stamp card lie together with the receipt ... a bribe huh?


So... Overall, I think Sushi Groove will be OK place for you if you have OK pocket... Perhaps it will be nice place to eat unique sushi after you forget how much money you have paid for your latest visit in this place... and of course to spend your RM 10 voucher =]




LINK: Sushi Groove

Stepmania

Recently I played "Stepmania," a PC game which is similiar to DDR (Dance Dance Revolution). The unique point for this game is we can create a song and play it. Besides image (picture), we can also insert video as the background for our songs (such as songs made by rainbowxmika). "Dancing Gorilla" is a simple program used to make the song.

It is kind of fun for "dancing" with our favorite songs deshou? ^^~


DOWNLOAD:

Stepmania official website (software and many songs): click here

Anime songs: click here
Visual Kei/J-ROCK/JPOP/Korea songs (credit to rainbowxmika): click here

Dancing Gorilla Program (software and tutorial): click here

DBSK - Purple Line
credit to rainbowxmika

Olivia (Inspi' Trapnest) - A Little Pain
credit to rainbowxmika

alice nine. - Fantasy
credit to rainbowxmika